Really? I suspect this is a troll but, in the static case, roughly the ratio of volume of space to how much gravitational force said volume applies on other objects. Extrapolate correctly for qm/gr - thats an exercise left for the reader.
Depending on your scales etc you may wish to group different things into the category of “object”, eg a car would likely be be selected as a valid grouping of atoms as an object by most people in conversation wheres it is mostly empty space at the micro level, and has a bunch of very different densities (many oom) at diff volumes even at the macro scale (eg the air in the trunk vs the engine block).
Depending on your scales etc you may wish to group different things into the category of “object”, eg a car would likely be be selected as a valid grouping of atoms as an object by most people in conversation wheres it is mostly empty space at the micro level, and has a bunch of very different densities (many oom) at diff volumes even at the macro scale (eg the air in the trunk vs the engine block).