Right, but doesn't the error handling approach you describe mean allowing a whole process to fail whenever an error condition occurs, which would cause any requests that were being handled by other threads of that process to fail even though they were perfectly valid?
An exception in one thread shouldn't affect others - why would it?
I agree that unstructured use of threading primitives leaves you with an unpredictable system, but it's possible to build safer, higher-level abstractions and use those.
Because fundamentally the only reason to use threads rather than fork is to share memory. If an exception leaves shared memory in an undefined state then all threads that share that memory are in undefined states.
True, but why would an exception ever leave memory in an undefined state? I can imagine it corrupting a thread's own stack in some languages, but you wouldn't use a thread's stack for shared memory (at least, not without some construct that told other threads when it was safe to access it)