I've spent considerable time looking for GTK3 themes that meet your requirements.
My current choice is openSuse-Pistachio which is green, reasonably compact, and did not break for two consecutive Ubuntu releases. zonColor icons work beautifully, too, with adjustable colors.
There are a few more reasonable choices (though not oodles) on gnome-look.org
My current choice is openSuse-Pistachio which is green, reasonably compact, and did not break for two consecutive Ubuntu releases. zonColor icons work beautifully, too, with adjustable colors.
There are a few more reasonable choices (though not oodles) on gnome-look.org